Tips for orgasm when you just CAN'T?

Hey friends! I'm 20, single, live alone, and have been masturbating for ~2 years now. I have fun and it feels great, but I just can't get myself off? I have a drawer full of lube and vibrators and dildos in different styles, but I always come back to my most basic dildo.

Also, clitoral stimulation doesn't do much for me, and I feel VERY uncomfy fingering myself. The feeling of my vaginal wall just freaks me out, idk why.

Lastly, I don't have an extendable showerhead, and I don't like watching porn 😅 am I just hopeless? I'm fine with not being able to orgasm, because I don't NEED it to feel good, but I'd like to be ABLE to, ya know? Any tips would be greatly appreciated!