Can I get some head? Can I PLEASE get some head?!

Question

I graduated from college and realized that I have only received oral sex from 2 people. I always give my partner a blowjob when I have hookups. In fact, I enjoy giving blow jobs cause I’m really good at it! I just find it weird that I’ve rarely had a guy reciprocate oral. Is it me? I don’t smell down there and I keep it pretty trimmed and tidy so why can’t I get some oral reciprocation? What am I doing wrong? 
-Sincerly, Tired and Headless

Accepted Answer

Adopt a policy of give and recieve. Dont give if you dont recieve. Watch how fast they change their tune and happily go down on you if you arent willing to do it for them.

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Some guys don’t like it. Some guys are selfish and done care about your pleasure

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In a hook up situation guys are more selfish and care about whether they get off not you. Personally, I don’t give blowjobs for random hook ups either. Only when feelings are involved

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I understand you like doing it. Cuz the fact that in the times that we are in you never know who's carrying what these days. My opinion is less people you've done it for the better.

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I don’t give head at hookups. You could catch an STD. If they wanna give me head that’s on them. But most guys don’t unless you are dating them and since they don’t I’m sure as hell not gonna.

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You are not doing anything wrong, a lot of men are too self conscious, afraid or selfish to initiate it themselves. 
The guys who are most afraid and self conscious are actually the best in my experience! Because you can just tell them what to do and they do it. However, in the first place, they can be VERY reluctant to even try it! They don't want to embarrass themselves, they are afraid of doing a bad job and need more reassuring and guidance. If you can tell them what you like or communicate during, you're on your way to being with someone who really knows your body.
The guys who are confident about oral fucking suck at it in my experience. They think they know everything about the female body, even if you tell them you want something different. 
But those guys, will always want to give you oral, for them it's a source of pride to be good at it & a lot of them basically have a fetish for giving it. And that's cool. 
Men who are scared of vagina or selfish are not going to want to give oral. The thought doesn't appeal to them, and they either think it's gross (not just you, but all vaginas) or they don't want to make that type of effort. They definitely don't have the fetish for giving oral. Similar to women who will not give head.
I'd say ask them and see what kind of response you get.

Can I get some head? Can I PLEASE get some head?!

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