So my husband who is a lying gambleholic and now drug addictive person for 2 years now have confessed his secrets. I’ve decided to leave this relationship because I can’t help a person that doesn’t want my help. He had the nerve to tell me that because I didn’t care enough to notice, it added to his drug addiction. How can someone say that to someone else that’s been trying to communicate and help. Was I suppose to see signs of drug addiction that I’ve never experienced before? Trusting people to do the right thing never seems to plays out for me. Even though I’m choosing to leave because of no trust and communication or any real bond between us, I was still willing to help him get through his addiction. But now, that I’m the blame for it, I’m removing Myself since I’m the problem, apparently. Anybody have any advice on starting fresh? How to handle it all?