Am I insecure ?

So today I dressed up and I go in my auntie room to talk and she said I'm insecure just because I wear figured clothing and most of my outfits are classy . I told her I'm not insecure I just find myself sexy and love my body and very confident about myself. She still kept calling me insecure even tho I'm not all because I wear figured clothing and TBH that's mostly what fits my body type better I'm curvy. Then she went on about herself say she is insecure about herself and that she doesn't show of her body like me and that she doesn't wear figured clothing when she does and also shows off her body but she doesn't realize it. All my life she been throwing her insecurities on me to make herself feel better an tires to make me feel bad about myself and not to be mean but that's why people call her a hater about me and she gets mad when people tell her that. I don't understand why my auntie is so fixated on my appearance and body like all I want is for her to leave me alone. What are your thoughts on this ladies and I'm consider insecure about showing off my body ?