Am I overreacting or is a guy cumming quick kind of selfish?
So I’m talking to this guy and we were talking about our past sexual experiences. I told him my ex would often cum quick and I was never satisfied sexually because he didn’t give me time to ever achieve my orgasms. Well I said it was selfish of him to do that and this guy tells me it’s not selfish because it’s necessary that a man cums every time he has sex but it’s not necessary for a women because it’s too complex and too much work has to be put in when trying to get a girl to orgasm. Which is why he prefers his girl to masturbate prior to them having sex so he doesn’t have to spend hours trying to get her to cum... So I told him it wasn’t true and I kinda changed the subject because I didn’t want to argue but it still bothers me that he said this. I feel like I should bring it up again because I do like him and things are going good but obviously if he feels this way I don’t know if I need to get involved because it’ll just be a re-run of my last relationship. Idk what do you all think?