Pregnant, husband doesnt want to have sex
As soon as I got pregnant (this is our first) he stopped wanting to have sex. It took me 2 months to get him to have sex with me and that was over 3 1/2 months ago.
It's not just the lack of sex, he doesnt touch me AT ALL. I maybe get a hug once a day and that's it.
I know someone is going to tell me to just jump on his dick or something. But my love language is physical touch and I've gone so long on an empty love tank, plus pregnancy hormones, I feel sad and unwanted at this point.
I mention it almost daily and I tell him that I dont feel like he wants me and he literally laughs.. then I cry and he says something dumb like "you're crying for no reason".
I dont really feel horney often but we used to have sex way more frequently and I know it would be good for my vagina and baby's health.
Most of all I miss cuddling, hugs, and kisses. It's as though as soon as I got pregnant, my husband turned into a roommate. I know hes scared of hurting baby somehow and I have explained a million times how he cant hurt her.
Sigh. I dont know if I'm asking for advice or just venting. It's been such a long time and I feel so alone in this.
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