I'll be 16 weeks Monday. My friend found out the gender of her baby at 18 weeks should I be able to find out the gender on my next appointment witch I'll be 19 weeks along ? My OB said baby was healthy and a very active child , and I was also healthy !! I would have asked my ob about finding out the gender but it just slipped my mind cuz I had a few other questions lol . Should I call her and ask? We are planning a reveal so me and my hubby can find out together since he cant be in the room cuz this virus.