I gained a ton of weight having two babies back to back. Between both pregnancies I am currently 150 (down from 165). My pre pregnancy weight was 105, which I don’t think I’ll get back to, but I would be happy at 120.

My husband has made it very clear that he wants me to lose weight. He’s not an asshole tho, he hasn’t straight up called me fat, but when we have sex we only do one position, we are spooning and I am facing away so he doesn’t have to look at me.

My diet has never been too horrible, not the greatest, but not too bad. I never really ate greasy fried food, no fast food either. My problem was too much snacking, and too many carbs. I changed my eating habits after my daughter was born (February)and now I don’t eat as much bread and pasta and I only snack on fruits and vegetables. I changed my diet a lot because my husband would constantly make comments, like “do you really need to be eating thay right now?” Or “why don’t you have another apple instead of tortilla chips?” Ok fine whatever. So he doesnt bother me about food anymore.

So now he’s on my case about going for walks with my babies. I got laid off and he’s working from home. Literally as soon as we wake up, he’s like “are you going for a walk today?? I really want you to go for a walk today” and I go for my walks usually around 12, after the kids eat, little one naps, I clean up, and then do baths. It’s so freaking annoying because pretty much from 730-12 all I hear from him is how I need to go for a walk. If my walk is less than 3 miles, he tells me I should go out again. Sometimes he comes with us, and that’s really annoying because he is constantly telling me to go faster 🙄🙄. Now he wants me to go for another walk after we eat dinner too. Like I have laundry and house work and I am just tired.

My walks started about 3 weeks ago, and I’ve been really consistent about it. I don’t need him up my ass, I am trying so hard to lose weight.

Just had to vent