So next weekend I’m turning 22. I have an almost 2 year old, and I am 18 weeks pregnant and a sweet husband. I have been having a hard time sleeping and on the weekend my husband tries to let me sleep in but my son is all about his momma and is always trying to find me at one point I slept in the babies crib hoping he would t come find me haha but he did so I really only sleep until 7 730 when he wakes me up. Also I want to add he gets breaks all the time he hangs out with his friends, he sleeps in every weekend and I wake up with our son everyday of the week and get him dressed before I leave for work. So I think it’s completely fair for me to want some time to myself.

Which is totally fine I love being his momma and wouldn’t change it for anything. But for my birthday present my mom offered to get me a hotel just to myself so I can go after my son is asleep and then have a chance to sleep in until I she told to check out. Well my husband freaked out and says it’s weird that I would t want to be alone for a night. I also would love if he could come too but I’m in the military we are stationed far away from family and the only friend I have has kids of her own so no one would be able to watch our son. I guess I’m just confused and a little frustrated because I didn’t think it was weird at all I’m just trying to grow a human and it’s exhausting but even more exhausting because we already have one baby. Do you guys think it’s weird?