Does your husband have a flesh light or want one?

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I told my husband that I wanted to try out a sex toy & he told me he wanted a pocket pussy. Isabelle never heard of a “pocket pussy” until he mentioned it. Do they interfere with your sex life?

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Isabelle? Are you speaking in third person? lol

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idk if my husband wants one... idk if i really want to know lol

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I got one and would use it on my husband during car trips lol 😂😂 we did it for forever until he finally told me I was literally rubber burning his dick with it 😂 even with lube lol he hated it. I was bummed bc it was HOT lol 🤷‍♀️

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I think if you think you are capable or having a sex toy without it interfering with your sex life, then you should trust he could do the same thing. 
Toys have never come up in my relationship. I have no desire to use or get one unless we are planning on using it while having sex together. If my partner asked for one I would probably feel weird about it. But in saying that we have sex daily if not every other day, so I don’t actually masterbate so suppose I can’t relate! 
I say go for it if you are both comfortable

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I got my husband one while he was deployed. He thought it was okay. Personally I’m a bigger fan of sex toys than him. But when he came home he wanted me. It’s squishy and stuff but not warm and wet so 🤷🏽‍♀️

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No they won’t interfere with your sex life, it’s literally just like you having a vibrator☺️ I would buy one for him as a surprise

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Theres nothing wrong with that, it's no different from you having a vibrator! My boyfriend doesn't want one but I've told him it would be totally fine if he did.

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Isabelle? Umm I'm going to ignore that you just referred to yourself in 3rd person like that. Anyways, you said you wanted a sex you and he suggested one that only he can get off with. No woman can sit here and tell me it would be attractive to watch that, lmao gross and I'm getting second hand embarrassment just thinking about this. Get yourself a personal toy if he is insistent on this pocket pussy!

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When we were dating and on vacation we went into a sex shop and we found it, bought it, and tried it out. It was fun. Then, it came home and sat and it was a weird silicon material and got a bit yucky after years of sitting in the drawer. I pitched it. This year, we’ve now been married almost 9 years, we went away for a concert and I bought us each a toy. Mine is a sucking one and his was a new, much better feeling flesh light. I blindfolded him and surprised him with it. We had a lot of fun. It now once again sits in the drawer lol It definitely didn’t interfere with our sex life but it was definitely fun to mess with. He also has trouble cumming two days in a row, he has low t, and he did the first night at the hotel with the flesh light so I figure that was it for the one night trip. The next morning though, he woke me up ready to go and we had great sex. I asked him how he managed that when he just did the deed the night before and he just said the toy was fun but it felt nothing like the real thing 🤷‍♀️ It even had two holes if you get what I’m saying...although we are both fine with anal once in a while. It probably depends on your man and your relationship.

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My boyfriend has one that I got him. It’s never effected our sex life. He only uses it when I’m not in the mood or if I’m on my period.

Does your husband have a flesh light or want one?

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