so annoyed

so my bf has a son already but this is my first i’m 37 weeks and everything i do he has to be opinionated in a rude way like I don’t know what I’m doing .. he wants to wash her clothes and organize them and then when i tried to help he catches an attitude saying i’m doing somethin wrong ... then I packed my hosiptal bag he complains saying i’m packing unnecessary things and hangs up the phone he got upset I packed onesis, a taking picture outfit, pacifiers, socks , and mittens and a headband for the baby pictures .. he was saying I only need a onesis and I think I know it all and i’m doing too much but I feel I can pack those things so what’s the issue all the time ? Then lastly he tells me what organizer closet I don’t need when I like them and everything is an argument ! then we had a fight because he was saying i can’t breast feed and feed the baby formula the same day and he hung up the phone .... i’m so tired of feeling like this he act wants to do everything and he in control and he don’t know shit