Is there something wrong?

Question

I’ve tried sex twice.. the penis wouldn’t go in. Tampons don’t go in either.. but my finger can. It feels uncomfortable and tiny bit painful, but I can still finger myself. I’m going to try tampons on my next period.. but do you think there is something wrong? I’m also 15, so I’m young. Opinions?

Answer

This sounds like something called vaginismus that causes your pelvic muscles to tighten and not allow any foreign objects in (you should look it up). It is a psychological phenomenon and some women have it and can't use tampons at all but can have sex, and some women can't even have sex because of it. It could be something that you have, and/or it may just take time for you to learn how to relax and contract your pelvic muscles since you are young

Is there something wrong?

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