Update on new people

So, the other day, I posted and asked for advice and information about my boyfriend wanting to watch me/record me having sex with another (potentially multiple) guys.

Thanks to two very nice people, I’ve found out he’s a cuck. Having a name to it is very helpful, thank you.

I was talking to a guy a reasonable distance away, and we were arranging a meet up, and I had to completely cancel. I realized I have no idea how to stay safe while doing this, especially since the virus makes it hard to go on dates in public places.

So for those of you who are in a situation like this, have been before, or are in swingers groups or do a lot of online hookups, anything that has you meeting someone online with the purpose of sex, how do you stay safe? How do you make sure whatever you’re doing isn’t going to get you raped, murdered, or sold?

Once again posting anon for the sake of privacy, but thank you in advance for any and all information you can give me!