Induction scheduling 😫

Countdown to out little bean has continued, i am 30 weeks so have to have inductio within 7 weeks (due to having gestational diabetes and ICP) I have gone through inductions every time (first was preeclampsia secind was elective third was also GD and ICP) so we sorta get a choice in the baby’s birthday which is all fun and games until you realize that you turn 37 weeks on your youngest 2nd birthday. I personally really do NOT want her to have to share the birthday with her little brother/sister (team green) hubby thinks it would be cool.... when discussing it with my ob I told her I dont want the baby born on July 1st or the 14th (my second’s birthday is the 1st) so she joked oh how bout the 7th (35+6 so a bit early, mostly a joke) and that is my dads birthday..... and shes all well crud we might just be destine for a birthday sharing😂 which I’m ok with as long as its not big brother or big sisters birthdays.... I would love a week or so between this baby and my youngest but my ob doesnt want me reaching the 38th week at all.... and i am honestly terrified of delivering in the 36th week again(last baby was 36+1, she was 100% perfect no nicu or anything but we might not be that lucky again).... what would you do?😫😂😅