No foreplay and bad sex

I’m so frustrated.

Me having a long day and being tired probably doesn’t help.

My boyfriend doesn’t want to do foreplay!! I don’t get it!! I don’t enjoy our sex 97% of the time. He never wants to eat me out but expects a BJ EVERY. SINGLE. TIME. His version of sex is getting hard, whipping it out, getting a blowjob, doggy or missionary, the occasion cowgirl and he finishes. It’s really one sided.

Most of the time I’m not even wet. It’s just like a do it until I get wet type of thing if that even makes sense. Sounds depressing doesn’t it? I’ve told him how I feel about it mannyyy timesss. He doesn’t seem to care. I’ve even told him just kiss me like make out with me passionately and feel all around my body if he doesn’t want to eat me out. NOTHING.

He said I sound like a broken record complaining about the same thing. Well??? And THEN gets upset when I mention wanting a vibrator and says he’s upset he can’t please me. IM TELLING YOU HOW TO PLEASE ME. I don’t get it. He also complains he does all of the physical work in sex. You don’t even want to take the time to turn me on so I can even want to do freaky things to you. Ughhh someone send help and orgasms my way. I don’t want to leave I love him but I’m frustrated