Do I have the right to meet my ex’s new gf?

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My ex and his gf are living together with her two kids. He wants our daughter to start going there to spend the weekends, but he said he’s not letting me meet the gf. I may sound overprotective but I don’t feel right sending my daughter to a house where I don’t even know everyone there! Am I wrong?

Accepted Answer

You should be allowed to meet the other adult in the home that your child will be staying at.

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I wouldn’t let my child go then! 
I know a friend who was in this situation and her ex’s girlfriend ended up beating the child, putting her in the hospital.

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That's kinda weird its usually the baby mama who never wants to meet the new gf. I'd say I'd like to meet her just to get a sense of who she is. I don't know why your ex wouldn't want you both to meet. He should be happy that you are willing to meet her. I know it might be awkward and strange for the new gf but she already has 2 kids so she should understand why you'd want to meet her.

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You need to meet the new gf. You’re a mom, you wouldn’t leave your child with a babysitter you’ve never met, would you? What if your ex had to go somewhere and left your child with her?

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Don’t let your child go. That’s a major red flag.

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Yeah if theyre living together then you should be able to meet her

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Nope you’re right. You need to meet that women before she’s around your child.

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I trust my little girls dad not to have no bullshit around her because he’s so overprotective so I don’t care who his gf is. Don’t care to meet. As long as my daughter safe and doesn’t express any harm done to her then idc. Just like idgaf to introduce my bf to him 🤷🏼‍♀️

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You have the right to know who is going to be around your child. If he doesn’t get that then don’t send her over there until he understands that.

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Yes. Don’t let your child go.

Do I have the right to meet my ex’s new gf?

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