Anybody else find this creepy asf...

I’m otp with my boyfriend and we’re casually talking and he mentions how he looked up my name and everything the first week we were talking to each other. He said he “basically did a background check on me” . That alone is creepy and weird but he also knows about a name change that someone related to me had...knows they lived with me and knows that I used to live in Florida. He then says he recently found out my IP address. That shit is totally weird and creepy and a disrespect to my privacy. How do I even start a conversation on this.. this is pretty much new because he also has this thing where he watches me from my friends page. I’m over all this weird controlling shit