20 and a virgin

I've never had penetrative sex with either of my partners 😪 Anytime I've tried it either hurts, or I'm too dry (even with foreplay). I'm so convinced I'm never going to be able to have sex, so I've just come to terms with being ok with it, and making sure my partners are satisfied and not bothered by it. My ex partner of 6 years was fine with it, then cheated on me. My now partner says hes fine with it, but I'm worried he'll change his mind sooner or later since hes actually had sex.

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Sh

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Do you want to have sex and just can't get comfy or do you not want to? (Sorry I couldn't really tell by how this was worded) If you want to maybe try going very slow and using lube. You could even get a toy and try that before trying an actual penis (like a dildo or something) just to get used to the feel

Je

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I dosnt lose mine until I was 21 and with the man of my dreams.. we were angsged at the time and it was amazing.. no regrets at all waiting for having a deep connection and fulfilling sexual experience.. we have been married 10 years and still have fire..