Anyone else's husband too scared to have kids?

We have been putting having kids off due to his fearfulness for 4 years now. Nothing seems to help him feel better. He finally told me this summer we would try....here it is a month from us starting and he is getting anxious again.

Let me give a but of back story. He has really bad anxiety and takes medication and has just started counseling.

We got a puppy recently and it almost killed him. It was supposed to help him but he had panic attacks for 3 days straight and was really stressed. He is better now since working out and spending more time with the puppy. But I'm afraid if I push him to try this summer he might break.

Does anyone have any good stories of their husbands or SO being scared but loving it?

I will be 30 this year that's why I feel rushed. I know it doesnt really matter

Thank you!