Checking dilation at your appt

Ellissa • This is our fourth pregnancy and we are praying for a safe and healthy baby!

Is anyone being checked for dilation each appointment? I’m curious if anyone has refused dilation checks, if so, how many weeks along are you? I’m 31 weeks and know they will probably want to start checking after my next appointment. I’m wanting to skip the checks this time, and I’m wondering if anyone has done the same. I feel like it’s unnecessary especially if you aren’t high risk. Baby’s gonna come when baby wants to come.