My husband does not listen!!!

My husband does everything wrong when it comes to looking after our child and it’s soo annoying having to repeat the same thing everytime! I keep telling him to stop lifting(carrying) our daughter up by her hands... I keep showing him the correct her to lift her up, but he continues to lift her up by her hands! I tell him all the time that by doing that, he could hurt her... does he stop? No no, he doesn’t! When applying lotion on her body, he rubs cream all over her eyes... again I tell him not to and that he can rub cream on her face easily without the cream touching her eyes... she’s too young to close her eyes when cream is being applied to her face! He does not listen to me and still does the same thing over and over again... these are just some instances, there are so much more. I am tired! I feel like he is too carefree with our child and that bothers me a lot... sadly, he does not see anything wrong and just thinks I am nagging