Boyfriend has trust issues !
Hi ladies, before I made the post of my boyfriend and his trust issues. We have a long distance and last time I was there visiting, we decided if the things goes right, I’ll move with him. That time everything was perfect. Now I came back to my city, already have everything packed and just waiting for him to tell me when to go. He has big trust issues cuz his ex girlfriends were horrible women and he thinks if I move with him, I’ll be same like them and he won’t be able to kick me out of his house like his ex that was an alcoholic and abuse him. I met him on tinder and I knew he was totally different like the other guys and now he thinks I do the same with all the guys. Anyway.. I don’t know how to convince him that I really want to go there and have a healthy relationship. Even i told him that I can go with some of my stuff for a couple of weeks, if the things goes wrong, I just simple come back. He was agree few days ago.. now he still with the same issues. I’m tired to tell him that everything will be different between us. I really love him and I want to give the try to go there. But also, I’m not sure if I just go there for a couple of days and rent a place or just wait until he is ready. Should I just give him more space until he thinks better the things??? I don’t want to give up on him, not until I’m there and show him how good we can be.
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