I'm a stay at home mom, mainly because my husband pushed it. He usually works a lot (around 12 hours a day) but due to the virus he has been at home since March and he has barely done anything. He does cook almost every meal, but other than that he has done the dishes four times (we have no dishwasher and we have three kids...) l. That's it. He doesn't help much with the kids either. I can count on my hands the number of times he has changed a diaper. He doesn't play with then much because he's sleeping all the time. He's usually working evening/nights so he usually sleep until lunch and he works past midnight. He has kept that routine, meaning I'm alone with the kids most of the day. When he is awake he's laying on the couch playing on his phone. When i confront him he says he doesn't think he's doing anything wrong. He thinks taking care of the house is my job and just because he has "time off" doesn't mean he should start doing "my job". He says if I want a change I should start working myself and we can split the chores. I'm furious! I don't think this is right at all.