I feel so unprepared RANT

Im 32 weeks and I have no clothes for baby girl. Not even a coming home outfit. I have the big items, like car seat, bassinet, swing. But every time I try to buy baby clothes (or blankets, accessories, bottles) I get the same dam response from my whole family. “Just wait until after the baby shower” which of course makes sense but I’ll be 35 weeks pregnant and I don’t know what I’ll get and what I’ll still need to buy. I’m already exhausted and miserable. I really don’t want to be washing her clothes, folding it and organizing her closet that late into my pregnancy 🙄