I'm such an advocate for healthy sex lives, within and without a relationship -if both partners are consenting adults.

But strangely enough even though I have a high sex drive I can not get turned on when I'm not in some type of emotiontional relationship with the other person. (tried many times)

Which means no casual sex or one night stands.

I'm in my 20s and find that most people my age aren't looking for relationships and aren't willing to invest time into a relationship if sex isn't on the table right away.

I don't know if I'm the only one who feels this way...