We often think that there is always a better option out there for us. And that we deserve so much better. This is part true and part lie because the same notion can be applied to our men. You can say they can get better and they deserve more then what we give. Although we don’t like to think that way. But why do we tell ourselves these things. I feel society has set us up to fail, with all these unrealistic expectations. It makes us think that we need a guy with and an 8 inch penis and Rolls Royce to be happy and the first sign of of a problem we must exit the relationship.

I learned along time ago that we can always say the what if’s. My good friend for instance is going through a divorce with her husband, and she thought the whole time life would be so much better without him. And she then realized it was not. She called me crying saying she made the wrong decision and I told her it was a choice you made. I never gave my opinion on the matter strictly because I did not agree with it. Her complaints where things such as he’s rude, gets loud , swears. But I am realist and know that his actions are a reaction. She herself is pretty bitchy and doesn’t have sex often at all with him. So you have to think as a guy how does he feel. Anyways she is trying to make things work with him. I told her that when you get into a new relationship everything is lovey dovey because it’s all new. Your more inclined to have sex more which in result everyone is happier. Also your much more tolerant with one another because everything is kind of like a show the best version of yourself is on display. So why not act like that with him. She said she never thought of it like that. And now they are currently fixing things. I forgot to add she dated a guy during the seperation and did not actually like him it was just sex and found him dull afterwards.

If this post can help anyone think twice my job is done.

Be kind to your so things can be almost always repaired if needed.