Would it be selfish/excessive to have 3 baby showers? Not by my personal request! I just have three very different groups of people that are excited about this baby (7 years trying, lots of mc, lots of fertility drugs) but they just all are very different from each other. And if they were combined into one shower it would be chaotic I think. But I’ve also had 3 diff people ask to throw me a shower.

First group- close friends (mostly all from church), spearheaded by my bff. None us drink/swear/etc.

Second group- work friends, they are very insistent they have their own shower for me lol. They are a lot more loud and irreverent than my close friends lol.l, but I love them.

Third group- neighborhood friends, these are the people whose kids play with my kids, I’ve had so many neighbors reach out and offer to help to watch kids when I have an appt my husband can’t get out of work for. And so many have donated their gently used baby items, maternity clothes, etc to me. While I am super grateful, I am not very close with any of them. we’re all good neighbors, but if it wasn’t for kids, we probably wouldn’t talk much lol. But my one neighbor has somewhat insisted they throw me one.

Showers wouldn’t be til sept/October, possibly beginning of November.

I realize this sounds super whiny, first world problem crap. I just want some outside opinions. Thank you! Do I just let them do what they want?