Vasectomy vs hysterectomy ....

So my husband and I have known we were done having kids for a while and we were wondering what people can advise us on doing.

I’m extremely fertile, so we always have to use protection and honestly I’m over that 😅 I’ve been on Nexplanon for the past 8 months and it’s absolutely destroyed my body. We are thinking about one of us getting the operation but it’s really confusing to us. Obviously it’s something we will talk to a doctor for but I’m just wondering from past experience... what would you recommend? Which has the least recovery time, how long does it take to heal, etc. We have 3 kids under 5 so we are pretty busy all the time 😬