Codependecy

Hi glow friends.

Let me keep it short. Me and my boyfriend have been arguing alot lately and getting into stupid fights that blow up. Im weak when it comes to the sense of i need to vent about whats happening and what im saying. I have a few best friends that i often tell mostly everything too, but i am realizing that im being very codependent. My mother overheard an argument and ive been telling friends about this stressful time in my life. I need to stop oversharing information that can harm the future of my relationship but i have a hard time doing so because it makes me feel so much better when i can vent. It must be annoying though to be the friend hearing all the bad and all the good. My friends do not want me to contact this guy anymore, but after discussing matters with him i want to give this a chance. I love him. We are just going through rough times.

Can anyone relate?

Does anyone have any tips to prevent my codependency?

Is it effecting how my friends view me as a person?