Before anyone says it-no I dont have "evil step mom" syndrome. I'm genuinely concerned..and if my concern turns out to be nothing then all the better!

So..my step mom is extreamly passive agressive, manipulative and controlling, and super duper talks down to people.. she also has a mentality of putting herself on a pedistool and everyone else should just take what they can get.

And this isn't just stuff ive overheard in their relationship..this is all stuff shes done to me and the people around her. Im not the only one who shares this opinion. My dad LITTERALLY tip toes around her, scared to set her off. Hes changed and it makes me sad.

The thing is✒I want to talk to my dad about it before he marries her. The purpose of the convo is NOT to change his mind, because I know if he wants to marry her he'll do it regardless. Whatever his choice is ill support him. But i want him to know that hes not alone. Should I?

..i already have the conversation navigated out to cause the least offense, i would just like to be sure before I do it.