Feeling over welmed

Kirsty

My partner and I are having our first consultation with the fertility specialist next week and I’m feeling so confused 🤷‍♀️ my partner is transgender and so has low/badly formed sperm so I was reading up about the iui and ivm (can not afford ivf in time as my partner is having re gender surgery next year) has anyone had any success with iui or ivms plz?