I’m newly pregnant with my 3rd. We currently live in a 2bdrm basement apartment to save up money for a house- and we’re getting there but realistically probably need another two years. I’ve also just applied to go back to school and will be starting in September (baby is due in Jan).

I don’t know if there is enough room for a 3rd child and if we want to save, finding a bigger house to rent (2200+ where I live) will back track us.

Also, as it stands my first semester will be online sept-dec so that’s doable but come second semester, unless it’s online due to covid, I won’t be able to attend. I’m getting government assistance to help pay for school, so if I only go one semester I may be banned from applying for school assistance again and have to pay back that money.

I’m really torn.. I’m 7w and not a day goes by where I don’t think about the ifs ands or buts.. We were using protection, so this was a major surprise. My boys are at perfect ages 3&5 and ideally I wouldn’t want the gap much larger than that.. but it’s just such bad timing😭

Side note: I’m 23 so finally starting school to become a nurse is really important to me to fulfill my personal wants and help out financially (which I have not yet been able to do).