Still TTC

Still trying to have a baby... I am well aware that many women try way longer than we have and I just wanna know how do you keep going. How do you keep trying when every month the negative test comes up and/or AF arrives and you are reminded you don’t get to me a mom yet. How do you all see everyone, friends and family announcing pregnancies and living on their little ones and you are once again getting a no. I want to be a mom so bad. Like I said I know lots of woman have been TTC much longer than I have... I just need some advice. Sorry everyone it just really hit me tonight when AF arrived and me and hubby were so sure we were finally gonna be parents.