Husband takes kids without you on vacation


Is it normal for your husband to take the kids without you to see his parents if you don’t have vacation with him? I don’t really get along with my mother in law and wouldn’t like it if he took our baby girl to see them if I wasn’t there. I did just take baby girl alone with me to see my parents without him last week since he still had to work and I had to fly since they are out of state. But I feel like it’s different since I’m her mother! And I was going to visit my mom, not mother in law... Am I right?