Advice please! When should we have baby #2?

Question

I am in desperate need of advice! I am an over thinker for sure and I can’t figure out what would be best. My baby girl just turned 1 in May. We know we want two kids and that is it so next one will be the last one. My husband, daughter and I are all born in April/May so I think it would be so special to have the last member of our family also born in one of those months which would mean we either have to conceive next month or wait a year and have a three year gap between kiddos. I’m hesitant to do it next month because I am currently on a weight loss journey that is going so well and I think being more fit would be a huge asset in pregnancy. Alternatively we could have the baby born in the fall but I work in college athletics and football season is not a great time to be away from work but should that stop us? If you were me, what would you do? Thanks everyone! ❤️❤️❤️❤️

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You could always go ahead and try and then if it doesn’t happen in your desired time frame, you could wait until this time next year or whenever and they would be three years apart. We just had our second and our oldest will be four in August and it has been a pretty good age difference so far.

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I'm a huge planner even down to the month for example none of us share a birth month so we'll stop trying on the months that would give us multiple birthdays in a month.. so since you are all in the same months I'd totally go for them to have the same birth months as the family lol but I'm a weirdo and do stuff like that 🤷‍♀️ good luck with baby #2 💫