Don’t wanna get too excited

I’m excited, but trying not to get my hopes up. Some of you may remember that I posted on here that I have been married 3 years. I have a 6 year old from a previous marriage and my hubby now and I have a 4 month old. Before we had her we said we would have 3 kids total(including my 6yo) but then after having our 4mth old he said he wanted to be done and wanted me to make him an appointment for a vasectomy before my depo shot ran out. (Took one shot, never doing it again..was due for another in a week).

Well he was so adamant like “I need to make the appointment, I’m done with having kids)

And I remember telling y’all that I was disappointed because before having our newborn we had discussed her not being the last. Well, lately he’s been making comments like “if we have a boy......” “we might end up having another baby” ....... “if we end up with 3 kids” ......etc etc. But when I asked him once after one of those comments, he repeated “oh I need a vasectomy... no more kids” 😒😒😒 idk what to think or DO or say ! I don’t want to get too excited because he seems to be coming around... but yet says no more kids, THEN turns around and makes comments about having 3 kids !!