So the first time I had sex postpartum it was like hot knives...not fun. It’s getting better to a point where it only hurts at first then it’s fine. Tonight it didn’t hurt at first but in certain positions (like normal positions for example me on top nothing crazy) my perineum starts to feel tight and painful. I usually just suck it up or switch positions but I just want to enjoy sex again. I think it’s the scar tissue from where I tore (second degree tear) that’s tight. I try perineum massage but that doesn’t seem to do much good. Anyone else dealing with this almost a year postpartum?