So my husband and I have been TTC for a month now and turns out his mom called him saying she’s pregnant his mom is 40ish she lives in a different state because my husband is Military so we’re in Cali. Me and my husband and are 20 and my husband does not want to try right now due to his mom being pregnant which I totally understand hes saying how it’ll be weird if we’re both pregnant at the same time this and that. I am honestly so upset we were getting prepared for everything, we had our mindset to TTC I even got off of birth control, I was tracking my ovulation , taking prenatals just so we don’t ? I just had a break down... sorry I had to rant ..