Have you had real arguments with your spouse where neither one of you apologizes but you two still move on eventually?

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I slept in the guestroom lastnight. He comes in the morning before work and still says I love you like nothing happened. But I'm still annoyed. When he gets home from work, we kinda just moved on. No apology or anything.

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Rarely do my husband or I apologize during arguments or after. We don’t apologize for feeling the way we feel. Only if we truly do something wrong do we apologize.

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It’s literally the only way we end arguments 😂 I know it’s sounds unhealthy, but we really don’t fight a lot, and if we do it’s over super dumb stuff like what to eat.

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If we have different opinions on something neither of us will apologise for feeling the way we do. Sometimes our debates can get slightly out of hand and you forget to listen to the others perspective but the next day it’s completely forgotten about. If we have an argument where one person is in the wrong, then an apology is necessary ☺️

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We do it all the time, usually the arguments are petty anyway. I kind of hold a grudge and he just starts talking to me again like everything is normal so I just drop it lol

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I've learned that apologies aren't always verbal. 
I tend to actually say "I'm sorry" while my husband rarely does, but I know he's sorry when he gives me a hug out of nowhere, or makes me something special to eat 😊 not everything needs to be hashed out, analyzed, and apologized for.

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Maybe I’m different here, but unresolved things in my relationship drive me absolutely crazy!! If it’s was an issue large enough that I’m not sleeping in my bed, then I MUST come to a resolution. In my experience, glossing over like it never happened makes it bound to happen again. My SO is type to move on as if nothing happened & drives me nuts!! I just feel in limbo until we drive the nail in the coffin & find closure on issue. 
After years of patience, stubbornness & perseverance, we have finally got on same page when these things happen (ish). Usually I have to initiate the convo & thats okay bc men are inherently lacking in emotional awareness imo. Anyways, we’ll calmly try and see each other’s point & find middle ground. Acknowledge & apologize for any hurt we caused the other in anger. And resolve that we are on same team fighting together, not against each other. Hug it out and then BAM it’s done!! Moving on, hallelujah! Both feel better. 
These are for larger issues/ blowout fights of course. Little things we move on from easily.

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If my husband and I fight, every morning we still say bye and I love you like normal. There will never be a day I'll ever regret telling him I love him and hugging and kissing him before work. I'll forever regret the day I dont. 
As for the I'm sorry, was it really over something that serious that you can't move on without an I'm sorry? Or did it start over something small and grow bigger? If it is serious and you truly can't just move past it, then talk to him. If you can be past it and it was something small that should of never turned into a fight then dont dwell on it.

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Sometimes I say I am sorry, even if I am not in the “wrong” and so does my husband. Not to allow him or I to be right, but to acknowledge that his opinion is different than mine, and that we should’ve listened to one another, rather than fight.

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They're rare to start with, but we always discuss our arguments and figure out how things escalated into becoming an argument. Can't fix an issue if it isn't talked about.

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Yeah we do this all the time . We are both bloody stubborn so we just agree to disagree. But we always share a bed.

Have you had real arguments with your spouse where neither one of you apologizes but you two still move on eventually?

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