Recently I’ve been seeming a lot of negative post about abusive/cheating boyfriends and let me tell y’all I can relate.

Back in March last year i got into relationship with this guy . It was horrible I’m talking about abuse on a daily and something that I spoke out about not long ago that many say isn’t rape but I mean what could I do if no one believes me. I worked my ass off for this dude I was in high school as well as finishing off my certification to become an ma and working after school as a CNA. Girl I bought this boy so much shit that till this day I laugh and I’m like damn i was stupid. Anything he would ask for he would have on Friday(that was my pay day) I payed for his phone bill, his music bill, I ordered him and his family food all the time( they claimed they didn’t have money to live)and as I said before bought him anything he would lay his eyes on. I obviously got tired of this. I asked him when he was gonna start putting in effort because I don’t need much to be happy a simple flower could make my whole week a simple note would mean the world to me but I never got it. This is when the abuse started not only from him but from his mother and sisters as well. One night after all the crying I picked up all the shirts he had at my house and put them in a box with money so he could eat the rest of the week I blocked him got a new number and have been living my best life ever since . I am now with the most amazing man he treats me as I deserve. All I’m saying is girl if you are in this position or where you got this . Never let ANY man make you think or feel you are less than you are. You got this girl we are here for you.