I've never had sex or sexual relations with anyone. I masturbate, and i think i orgasm?? Im not sure what it's supposed to feel like. For me, at least, It's like relief, and i shake a little bit, but it's never as powerful as anyone says. Am i just not horny enough? I only get there from clit stimulation. The ice thing hurts for me, and whenever i use makeup brush ends or like things to push up my 😺 it always ends up feeling weird or just not feeling it at all. HELP?!?!?