Sex life?

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Soo anyone else not have one after March baby? Or just me? 
Lol I just don't know anymore. It started out from exhaustion on both sides, having a baby and all. Then I noticed he rarely wanted to anymore. And in turn that made me not want it either, given that I'm really only in the mood when he is. I ain't gonna beg for it!
So now, we both never instigate it. And I'm never in the mood. Almost to the point where I'm not attracted to my hubby anymore. I'm feeling run down and resentful from all the shit I do with cleaning, baby, working from home. Just so over it.
What should I do?

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My suggestion is to talk about what you just told us.
Try not to let it turn into an arguement. Because it can turn into it quick if someone feels resentful. Thatll have to be another conversation for another time if necessary. 
And try to have it once even if it feels forced. Itll be kind of awkward at first and continue that a few times. The more you have it, the more you guys might want it. And eventually it stops being awkward and forced.
This worked in my experience and for the person who gave that advice. I think she was in this group actually.
Best of luck!

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yup. mine doesn't exist at allllll

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No sex life here either

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Yeah, it’s rough. We have a VERY high maintenance 14 month old and there is no time spent without him (he sleeps with me, yep, shame on me). We’ve decided he really wants to be an only child 🤣. Not to mention, I’m exhausted and haven’t had a full nights sleep in 14.5 months, work full time, spend time with him during the day, blah blah blah. So when I do get thirty minutes to myself, sex is not my top priority. I know it’s important to my husband, so I try to leave him with my mom a few times a month so we can do it, but it has to actually be planned. I’ve heard the advice of, just do it, more than once when it comes to sex. You may not be in the mood or have a huge desire, but just do it. You should probably talk to him about it so you aren’t initiating and getting shut down.

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Same. And also co sleep. My parents babysit in the mornings for an hour or so- so I can have a quiet shower- and have a nice breakfast with my hubby. Sex is the last thing on my mind generally- but every once and awhile I ask him to hop in the shower with me- 2 birds one stone 😂 our babies won’t be this small forever! And eventually sex will return! Thankfully my husband is super understanding and knows eventually we’ll get back to “normal”

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I think its all communication and effort - which of course is prob different from what you’re used too. But worth it.
Im the same way. Once i haven’t for a long time i stop wanting it all together but after a few days in a row the drive is back. 
So maybe have a good talk about it and then throw in some special occasion stuff. Fathers day would be a good time to go all out for it 🤷🏼‍♀️
But idk hah i haven’t had sex in a few months and i blame that on being almost 38 weeks pregnant haha. My sex drive is zero until after breastfeeding but i do still make the extra effort anyways sometimes

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I honestly think it’s the exhaustion of parenting. I am still exhausted every day. Haha.

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I feel the same way sometimes. I tell myself there is a season for everything and right now we’re just not having a ton of sex and that is okay. We have a great relationship. Spend a ton of time together and are intimidate in other ways. I try not to worry about it.

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