Why do i always get ghosted or told “i’m not looking for a relationship” even if we have already been on dates and had a great time and they seemed so into me?? or they’ll say they just wanted something casual like to hook up. but it doesn’t even matter if i’ve slept with them or not. doesn’t matter where we met. i’m not overly clingy or anything. it just always happens. i feel like there’s just something horrible about me. does this happen to anyone else?