My husband and I have been married for a while now. I'm having trouble feeling attracted to him at the minute. (Well it's been almost a year tbh). First I just had sex less often with him but it obviously didn't do our marriage good. I could go a month without. But he'd prefer to do it every day.

Knowing that he still is very much attracted to me makes it super difficult to open up to him. I don't want to hurt him or make him feel insecure. It's not fair on him and u just don't know how to fix this.

The only thing that has made me be able to enjoy sex with him, is when I close my eyes and pretend I'm having sex with someone else. It feels wrong, but it's also not fair for me to just not enjoy it, right?

More than knowing if it's normal, I'd like to know how others have overcome this. I still love my husband and he treats me and our children well. I don't want to end a marriage just because I'm not attracted to him anymore. Surely there's something that can help.