A little background:

I have been with this guy for three years he is 29 and I am 21. We hadn’t been living together or anything I would just stay at his place. Well about 10 months ago he moved abruptly with his “cousin”. He said that there were people out here who wanted to hurt him. Okay I didn’t think too much into it at the time. Because I’d rather him be safe than not at all. He said we needed to start saving to get our own place together. So here we are I’m sending him money each time I get my paycheck thinking okay you trust him. (I did just so happen to keep all the receipts) as time went on I asked could I come visit him at his cousins who lived an hour away. He said no his cousin didn’t want any new females at his place. So my boyfriend would always come back out here and visit me. Which I thought was a little weird but okay. Well ten months later I had sent plenty for us to move and he was suppose to be saving right along side of me. He kept claiming we weren’t ready, or that his car broke again. I started to get frustrated. So I googled him and saw that he had a new current address which was different from his last current address. It was his baby mamas. So here i am I play it cool up until I had an off day to drive out there. I get out there and one of his cars is parked at his baby mamas apartment the one he claimed to be “broken” and the other was gone. I go upstairs and knock on the number listed. His son answered the door. I said “is your dad here” he responded and said yes. I than said can you please go get him. He went back in and came back and told me he wasnt there. So I get even more frustrated. Not even 8 minutes later he starts texting me talking about how did you find my “cousins place” which it obviously wasn’t. The baby mama stays in Indianapolis. While he claimed to be staying in Lafayette with his “cousin” I left some copies of receipts on his car for the money I sent him bc I was so pissed off. I start to head back to Lafayette bc I was going to stay with a friend out there for the night. He told me when I make it back to Lafayette he would prove to me that he was out there. I said okay cool send me your cousins address and we can talk. He refused. We ended up meeting at a Walmart. He proceeded to tell me that his car was parked there bc it needs work done out there and that his baby mama said it was okay. Then he said his son probably thought I was asking about his step dad when I said dad. Because he claimed his baby mama to be engaged. He also pulled up in a car I had never seen before he said that it was his cousins and he was proving to me that he stayed with him.

Well two weeks go by and we’re still arguing about it. He says I’m crazy and I said I don’t know if I trust him. I looked at his baby mamas page today and seen she had changed her cover photo to them together. So I call him going off telling him to send me back my money. And he told me it was an old photo that she probably did that to piss off her fiancé bc they were arguing or something. But all this seems so crazy. He claimed he hasn’t messed with her since there first kid which would have been around when he was 15. But these pictures look like them now. So . I don’t know what to think or what to believe. When I said I was going to message the baby mama he got so angry.