I’ve been with my husband for five years and I just found out he doesn’t know my moms name or birthday. Him not knowing her birthday is not a big deal but it’s just the simple fact that our mothers are born three days apart and he can’t even guess the damn month she was born. I really feel some type of way about this.

Thanks for the responses. He’s seen my mom multiple times and she messages him almost biweekly just to see how he’s doing. We live in a different state now due to the military. If I asked him to give me the first and last name of some porn stars he’ll do it with no hesitation. But that’s neither here nor there. Also, both of our moms birthdays is next week. Randomly throughout the month we’ve been talking about needing to send our moms presents. That’s why I’m so confused on how he could be so oblivious to even the month my mom was born in.

You know how it is when the small shit in your relationship just triggers you. Please don’t get on me too bad y’all