Okay so for the past 9 months me and my partner have been talking about names for #2 and skye/Skylar has been top of our list for a girl. His brother and partner fell pregnant and then we did a month or so later and we really liked Skye. I then lost the baby.

We mentioned to his mum we liked the name Skye and she told us no because thays what his brother had picked for a girl. Turns out - they're having a boy. Would I still be a dick to use the name Skye at all (middle or first name) when I eventually get my rainbow baby?