How do I handle my husband and his anger?

Kayli

My husband is bipolar and has anger issues. Sometimes he's the sweetest man and other times he's screaming at me for getting in his way, he yelled at me earlier for accidentally knocking over his cup (even though he did it and I was nowhere near his cup), he screams at me atleast once a day and I'm so over it. Everybody I speak to says I'm stupid for staying and that's honestly not what I want to hear. He's the only one who works, we have 3 kids together, I have no family to help me, no insurance, no money, my name isn't on anything, and I'm not sure what to do. Has anyone been through this and was able to come out of it? He was NOT like this the first 5 years of our relationship. He has only been like this since he lost his job and had to get a part time job at the grocery store and we had a 75% pay cut from it. Does anybody think there is hope we can work this out? I don't believe in divorce but I'm not sure what other options there is. Any advice is appreciated.