I guess I forgot to have the conversation with my husband. I assumed we’d discuss before transfer (if there were multiple), which one to implant first. We had always talked about one of each, and pre-<a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">IVF</a> had planned on learning at the first ultrasound that saw it (though at the same time I don’t want a gender-reveal and I try to be conscious of problematic gender roles).

Anyway, when my doctor called with my pgs results (I put her on speaker) and asked if I wanted to know gender, I said of course! They were all girls! I’m happy either way, but as soon as I got off the phone, my husband looked sad and said he didn’t want to know in advance. Oops. I think part of it might have been being sad that there probably won’t be a boy (hoping I can get two pregnancies from this round).

How are all of you PGS <a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">IVF</a> folks handling gender? Finding out the embryo genders? Implanting intentionally or blindly (when more than one)? Any discrepancies between what you and your partner want? Other thoughts?