Soo, my Significant others mother wants us to come down in November after the baby is born. We live in Ohio, she lives in Rhode Island that’s a 11 hour drive and that’s without stopping. And on top of that I have a 9, 6, and 1 and half year old. That’ll be stuck in the car. I think it’s super unreasonable for her to want us to come that soon after the baby is born ( due October 22) and she won’t even have her shots yet..how do we break it to her that we just aren’t coming down?